Every person will have a different answer to this. Some men have wives who usually use excuses to fend off sexual activity. Most men would want their women to have sex more often, while others would just want their women to complain less! Some men would want their woman to take more interest in sports in order to enjoy those activities together, while others would want their women to be more forgiving when it comes to free time with the guys! There really are a wide variety of things at play here.
Here is an article on sexual activity during marriage which is most men’s biggest wish https://articles.gomarry.com/questions-to-ask-before-getting-married-81-how-many-nights-per-week-would-you-consider-having-intimacy-with-your-spouse/
Unfortunately a stigma exists which says that the intimacy dies after marriage which definitely is not and should not be true.