Heartbreak has taught me a lot about many different parts of life. But there are a few main lessons. First, I learned to take good care of myself, when I am in a relationship and when I am not. Second, I have been learning how to get to know people better. It is important to take care when getting to know people, and really be thorough. Using a method like the Marriage Guide on GoMarry.com is a really good way to take care of the getting-to-know-you process.